
Why Tipping Companions Will Buy You Nothing: On Generosity, Kant, and the German railway
A close friend of mine recently sought my advice as he prepared to meet a companion for the first time. He wanted to know how to ensure the experience was enjoyable for both him and his guest. I was genuinely pleased he turned to me—it felt exciting, like watching someone step into a new world with trust in your guidance. “Ask me anything,” I told him. “I’ll share whatever you need to know.”

Autostraddle Interview: on women (not) hiring escorts
I had the huge honor of talking to Riese, one of the founders, recap writer extraordinaire, and fellow (ex-)sex worker, about my own sapphic adventures as a luxury escort.

Moving musings: on magnolia, wonder, and coming all over again
A lover of (w)horticulture but not well-versed in the taxonomy of trees, I did not know exactly which flowers to expect come bloom…

On Neophilia, Deepening and Making God Laugh
Did you know you can categorize animals by their attraction or aversion to newness? Neophilia, the love of novelty, is a measure of curiosity, adaptability, and the capacity to thrive in changing environments. Neophiles are drawn to new experiences, quick to embrace learning, and often playful risk-takers.